guys are dumb, period.

a couple of things i see around quite often lately.. and i need to get it off my chest. well, last week someone mentioned.. there's a little girl in every woman. kristy says.. there's little girl for the parents, little woman for the man she loves and respect, and miss independent for the rest of the world. every girl wants to be the princess who falls in love with her prince charming.. and i admit i'm no exception. but things ain't like what it used to be anymore because prince charming left no descendents. boo hoo! well, have no fear.. miss independent is here. some woman are followers while some are not. i am the former. she has ruled my lovelife the past 21 years and i am quite thankful she did, not counting the few intrusions from prince "alarming" (aka pseudo 'prince-charming's). she fended me well. however, miss independent can be quite a bitch at times.. and that frustrates me. i want to get rid of her but looking around, i figured i'll be better off with her rather than supporting little woman. i tried to let little woman take over.. seriously! but it makes me feel so... weak, defeated and reliant. and i thought it would be everything else.. phfft. perhaps i thought wrong.. or maybe it's just unrealistic of me to have certain expectations.

guys are just plain dumb (when it comes to certain matters) and i am not saying this in retrospect. i have my reasons for making such a statement (and if you're thinking it's because i got hurt by some jerk or something.. no, that's not it). who needs a pussy for a man?! currently, there's quite abit of hype to get attached. heard some people saying it's all starting to get a little overrated. i think the term 'overrated' itself is a downright understatement. the dating game is no longer fun.. they expected you to play it a certain way and abide by their rules. please stop killing the bantering and spontaneousness! i have had quite enough.. so my decision is to give miss independent her throne back. little woman can go sit one corner and continue being little.. or, she could jolly well dig a hole and bury herself because miss independent is here to stay.